I never understood people who can be BFFs with their exes. Especially when you still hold torches for them. Won't they break their hearts, realising that they will never touch their exes' lips ever again, or hold their hands, or have the exes look at them like nothing else matters, or get embraced?

A thought popped up while listening to "Cool" by Gwen Stefani today. It's kind of clear that the narrator in the music video still has feelings; so why does she go through with it? How can she? If I broke up with Will and he started dating a new girl, god forbid we live in a different country (at least) because I'd probably go insane if I saw him kissing someone else. I may end up killing them both then plead innocent by the reason of innocent in the court.

Anyone have ideas? Because this is a mystery.

It’s a bit weird to be looking back, perusing through my blogs (which I have maintained since junior high), trying to remember my high school days. I’ve been away from the environment for six years now, and I never, ever want to return again. What made me return to the days of my mental torture was Sandy Hook Incident, and how the shooter was a quiet bright man who was almost a complete recluse in high school.

I was a recluse in high school. Maybe it doesn’t qualify as bullying, but it sure felt like I was ostracised; there was a glass panel between “me” and “everyone else”, and no matter how much I rammed on the panel, nobody could hear me, and I felt as if the world was going by while I was in a glass box. I hated almost the entire school, and I actually had a few murderous thoughts throughout my career. Academically, I was a star; socially, I did not exist. I spent most of my afternoons and evenings studying or prepping for my various extracurriculars, of which I rarely took any joy in. My life was work, work, and more work, with almost no friends and no play. It did not help that I had Asperger’s Syndrome, then unknown, and was unable to read the minutiae of the nonverbal cues people give off. I did not take jokes well; unless its meaning was obvious, I took it rather literally. I was Asian in an almost completely Caucasian school. I didn’t join the fashion cliques. I was different on almost every aspect, I thought differently, I had different priorities. And for that, I was punished, because for all the freedom and diversity the social system advertises, the society does not. Mean Girls isn’t just a film, it is a fairly accurate portrayal of many high schools across North America, where if are different in one way, shape or form, be it race, the way you think, or the way you dress, you are ostracised. And if you are not part of a group, you are, in fact, not one of them, and therefore you are an easy target. (I’ve also lived in Japan and England, and for some reason, I’ve observed this tendency far less often in those two countries.)

In the end, my mind was going through torment overload. A teenager is fragile, unsure of any direction like a new butterfly emerging; the wings are wrinkled and still unstable, and they are vulnerable and unable to take flight. Even the slightest jostling can ruin the beautiful wings. And we are jostled all the time; we don’t finish drying the wings all at the same time, and some take flight far earlier than others, causing turbulence and wind that disturbs the drying butterflies. I dried very slowly.

I almost didn’t at all.

I’m not vouching for all teenagers – some seem to have happy high school lives – but I didn’t. Each day was a slow agony. I was eccentric, and that meant laughter was in order, and even if they had not meant it, I took it as a ridicule. But I knew that murdering others wasn’t an option – if I survived through the ordeal, there’d still be repercussions – and so the murderous energy, the fury and rage, turned in on itself.

On me.

I did not pull the trigger in my mouth. We do not keep guns in the house, probably a good thing. But I started starving myself, under the pretext of getting in control of my life, because I felt my life was spiralling out of control. University applications were a chore, and even with that I was going down a different road; I was applying  to British universities, which was the very first in my school. I was on a strictly regimented diet that would barely sustain a newborn let alone a 5’9” 17 year old. I began to visibly lose weight. I was borderline overweight when I started, and when I graduated, I was a measly size 000. When I bent down, my vertebrae stuck out. It was a mental suicide, if not a physical one, because in a way, it was either them or me; we could not coexist in the same world, so one of us had to go.

This is not only my story. This is my friend’s story. This is my student’s story. I hear this story everywhere, and people ignore them, because the good majority are in groups and those who are not in groups are invisible. We are the invisible walkers in the hallways, until our minds cannot take it any more; invisible people cannot coexist with visible ones, so one of us has to go. Very often it’s yourself, and while you may not kill yourself completely, you do go through some sort of a mental, ritual transformation to leave that chrysalis behind and emerge to the sky as a butterfly. A differently winged one from the vast majority; we were not counted as butterflies because our chrysalis had different patterns, so it is only natural that when we fly, our wings look different from the rest. The Ugly Duckling is a surprisingly accurate allegory that tells us this phenomenon has existed for centuries.

What I am not trying to say is that I am Adam Lanza. But what I am trying to say is that this is not just a problem about guns, or violence. It is also about the mentally unstable son of Liza Long and Liza Long herself, and that invisible teenager who is getting mocked and teased every day in English class because he is a social recluse. I am not defending Lanza – what he did is heinous, despicable, and should not be forgotten or forgiven – but what I am saying is that, sometimes, it is a thin line that divides you or me from the shooters at Columbine High School.

We all need saviours. A gentle word from a teacher, a caring smile from a classmate might be all one needs. But in order for that to happen, someone has to notice you, and if you are invisible, then that’s impossible.

Sometimes, we are banging on the glass wall, never to be heard by the passers-by. But it takes one person to notice and shatter the glass wall down.

It’s been three months and ten days since my last entry, partly because my life gets hectic when I’m at school. But I have one more exam to go.

It feels odd being in this situation. The phrase “my boyfriend” sits oddly on my tongue, like a foreign food that I’ve never tasted before. It doesn’t mean it tastes odd, but it does roll of my tongue clumsily sometimes. Now that I think about it, I never referred to my ex that way; he was always referred to by his name, and that never changed, even after the incident. But Will is constantly referred to as my boyfriend, and while it feels odd sometimes, it’s not an unpleasant feeling.

I suppose I need to rewind.

The summer was a lonely one. I was with friends, but I felt all alone; I think it’s because I always had to second-guess their motives. That’s what happens when you stick them in a sexual limbo, and I suppose that’s partly my fault. I wasn’t exactly where I wanted to be, and I needed someone who didn’t expect anything out of me. I was the girl who went to medical school at age seventeen. I was the girl who was a model. I was the girl who could play Sibelius at age sixteen. Etc. But I just needed someone to look at me as who I was personally, not by my abilities.

Will was lonely. He had just moved to Brussels. He was all alone; and he does have particular traits that make him not exactly the most sociable in the world. If I didn’t know the truth I’d have thought he had Asperger’s.

I think it’s only natural that we became close.

Of course, that took a tremendous courage on his part. But for whatever reason, he did see it fit to strike up that courage. We began talking, every day, me sometimes drunk, but always on edge, for I was beginning to develop some possessiveness over him (which some people call crush, but how was I to know) and where could this go? He was nineteen, I was twenty-two, and I had made it a rule never to date anyone under my age… there were so many rules I had made up for myself, and I just could not see this going anywhere, so I kept my guard up.

But he still invaded my world, not knowingly, but he still did. I was vulnerable, as I always had been, feeling low, trying to find someone who smiled just because I was there, who took joy in my happiness. Someone I could feel I could give my life up for, and it didn’t come turbulently, but rather like a shadow, which you only notice after it’s fully there. I had no idea what he even looked like, but I was getting attached to him; he had a vulnerable side underneath the mask he wore, and he showed it to me, timidly, like a butterfly emerging from a chrysalis.

I suppose one of the reasons I became attached to him was because of that. He wasn’t asking for love, just that I’d allow him to love me. He was like a bed, always there, ready to catch me if I fell. Demanded nothing of me, accepted me for all my weaknesses and vulnerabilities. He never demanded anything, never asked, always there.

September came. Things happened.

And then he came to visit. He came down to where I live during Columbus Day weekend, since that’s Canadian thanksgiving (they have thanksgiving? For what?), and I had the weekend off. The beginning started off awkwardly; I went to pick him up, and he was sitting there, and considering that I’d never actually met him before, it was very awkward. He’s very shy. We dropped his things off, discovered almost none of his cards worked, and we panicked for a few hours.

After that got sorted out, we walked around town. Went down to the beach on Ohio Street (I think). It was cold, and the wind was blowing in our faces, and there were people jogging around, but for some reason it felt as if there was a bubble around us that kept us separate from everyone else. He held my hand, and I suddenly felt very small (which is a bit of a feat, since I’m 5’9”). My hand felt small in his, our fingers entwined, his hand warm against mine. We sat at the beach, mainly because Lake Michigan is one of the town’s attractions; there was a previous occupant on the ledge, so we sat on the concrete that quickly drops off onto the sand, but as soon as the occupant left we moved to the ledge, facing the water. The wind blew in our faces, and my ears were cold.

There are moments when the silence dominates, and you just have to take a plunge to break it; otherwise it feels like the silence will wrap around you forever. I remember saying shyly (or at least, I felt very shy), looking into his face, and asking him if he remembered the kisses he promised me as a part of a running joke; I had tagged a price on something I did, and that was a kiss, which grew to two, then four, then it started racking up, and by the time October came it was in hundreds. He nodded.

“I think I’d want one now.”

He looked a bit flustered. I knew I had hit out; maybe he wasn’t ready. Maybe he wasn’t in the mood. But then he confessed that he had no experience (which wasn’t any news, since I knew I’d be his first girlfriend).

I looked up at him again. I had to; he’s 7 inches taller than me.

“We all have to start somewhere,” I said.

And then our lips locked, and suddenly I wasn’t cold any more. Our lips separated, and he laughed.

“What’s so funny?”

“My heart’s beating so fast.”

And it was. I listened to it, my head against his chest, and I could hear it, a fast, steady pulse, telling me that he was a living being, warm, flawed, and open enough to show me. Jack wasn’t so; he expected something of everyone, including himself, as if he could not let his guard down. He demanded perfection of his little world, and when that crumbled, he fell apart. But Will knew he wasn’t perfect; he was aware of his flaws, accepted them, and knew that the world is perfect just the way it is, even in its inherent imperfection. He was living, warm, aging, alive. I was suddenly aware that he was male, and I was female, and that if he decided to he could just take me and I’d be powerless; but I also knew that because he was aware of his imperfections, he’d never fall to the bottom, he’d never let everything go as Jack had. So he’d never do anything without my consent. He never even touched me until I asked him to.

And just like that, layers fell off, one by one, layer by layer, like getting the skins off an onion. A shy smile turned into a broad grin, a timid hold of hand became firmer. The next morning we went to Six Flags after missing the shuttle, and even that was a happy memory despite all the grumblings and inconveniences; he was happy to be there, and so was I, despite the cold (and it really was cold).

Sunday. He was leaving the next morning, and I was aware of each moment, as if I was watching sand fall grain by grain. I was late that morning. We set to meet at ten and I was twenty minutes late; I felt apologetic but when he saw me he had a big grin on his face, and everything was gone. Visiting the Art Institute was an eye-opening experience, partly because if we’d entered myth trivia I’d lose (first ever for me… probably another reason he’s borderline autistic). The sun was shining, and the marathon was going on, and the town was busy and full of bustle. We giggled all the way through modern art (most of which make no sense to us).

There is a little garden next to the Art Institute, where it is canopied by trees planted on elevated ground surrounded by marble which is just the perfect height to sit on. I was tired from all the walking, so we sat on the ledge. The leaves were falling; it was autumn. Kissing occurred almost naturally, our eyes meeting and our lips touching; we got interrupted by a woman who asked for money, and Will, in his superbly good mood, gave her some cash he had (partly to drive her away so we could resume kissing, he said afterwards with a grin). I was intensely aware of his smell, his warmth, his breath, his hands on me, the way his lips locked with mine, the way his dark eyes looked at me.

Lunch was a fun affair; Flat Top Grill is a popular hangout for the students, so we went there. More walking around, and then suddenly it was evening. When it was time for us to say goodbye, I realised I could not. Now that the moment was approaching, I couldn’t let him go. I wanted his hands in my hair, his eyes on me, his mouth on my lips again, his arms around my shoulders.

I couldn’t say that. I felt shy, and I’m not supposed to say things like that; I’m logical, without much emotions, cool and collected. And saying “I don’t want you to go” sounded so squishy. So I asked him to get me home, since it was getting late.

He hesitated.

“Please?”

We stopped by the hostel first, since I had asked for his shirt before he even came down here. He gave me the one he had been wearing the previous day, and it smelled of him; we had to walk from Clinton to La Salle, and we promptly got lost on the way, but eventually we found the station. We went on the train to get home.

And it was as if my brain was finally aware that this person was leaving soon to the place I would not be able to go to on a whim, that this person who had spent so much energy coming to see me was going, that I won’t see him again for some time, perhaps months. I couldn’t just let him go. I kissed him, and he kissed me back, and some glitter from my lipstick had rubbed off, but when I told him that he just laughed and wiped it off. I kissed him again. And again. As if I could stock up on kisses to last me until the next time our lips met, our hands became entwined.

He met my mother that evening, since she invited him in for tea; and he sat rigidly, shy again, meeting the mother of the girl he was seeing. I left him a little souvenir in his pocket, and then my mother and I walked him back to the station. I went onto the platform while my mother waited downstairs. We stood by the exit.

“I love you,” he said.

It might not have been the first he said; I can’t remember. Probably not. But my mind was screaming that the train might leave any time, taking him away from me. I kissed him again. His lips were dry, soft. Another kiss, followed by another. And another. I was in his arms, and it was as if I had my duvet around me, making me feel safe and warm.

Apparently I asked him to make the kisses lighter, because it had a certain effect on me. I don’t remember saying it, but then again, he’s the one with the mind for details; kiss after kiss, our lips met, separated.

Then I saw the driver getting on, and I knew I had to leave him, and he me.

Many conversations followed after he left. My wounds were deep; he is patient. Many doubts; he dispelled them, one by one, painstakingly.

I’m not sure when I realised I loved him, and that if he were to get up and say “I’m going to leave you, I found someone else”, I could probably smile and let him go, not because I didn’t care but because his happiness was mine. That even if he did that now, I could thank him for all the love he had given me, and all the memories of being loved and being able to love someone. For memories are all we cling onto when we have relationships, friends, family or lovers; we stock these memories with each second we spend with them, to pull them out later like an album and smile to ourselves. It feels odd to say that I love him, but if being able to sacrifice yourself for the sake of another willingly is love – and that’s how I define it – then I do love him.

When you love someone, it does not mean the centre of your world becomes the other person. It becomes an ellipse, with one focus being you and the other being the other person; thus your world expands. You share your world with the other, and hopefully the other reciprocates, and the world expands around you, bring you new joy and new tears.

So whatever the outcome – whether we are together until death do us part or whether we are not – that is not the important thing. It is the journey to the end that is important, each minute spent getting there. And since the journey is inherent to whatever end it reaches, this relationship will always be dear to me, for telling me that there is someone who loves me – not as a friend, or a parent, but as a female, a person, as me – and that I am able to love back.

And it is not being loved that is the key to the relationship. It’s about loving.

For the past three semesters I have been in a quartet. Quartet, as it turns out, requires organisation far more than skills, and I was taking care of organisational schemes for the past two semesters (setting up practice rooms, setting times up, getting in contact with everybody). This semester, after our third cello left, a professional instructor came in lieu, and he designated someone else as the “frontman”.

Good, I thought. I’m freed from obligations.

What a frontman does, essentially, collects information, distributes accordingly, and takes actions. So if someone is sick, it’s frontman’s job to tell it to the instructor; someone is missing, it’s also the frontman’s job to contact them and know where they are. They are the organisers of the group; sets up time, reserves room, contacts instructor, e.t.c. Since I was no longer the frontman, I relegated the information (that I was busy this week and can’t do it Wednesday or Friday) to our new frontman.

Well, as it turns out, our new frontman did NOT inform the instructor. And now the instructor is pissed off. Apparently he wants me to quit.

So I shall.

That opens up two hours during the week, not to mention I get to go home at 3:45 – ish on Fridays. And do homework. And other things that demand my attention.

They can try to find someone else.

That’s what a certain male character says in the game Dragon Age: Origins, when he, er, tricks your character into admitting that yes, you like him. And then he kisses you. Out of the blue. That’s called kiss-theft, and it’s the non-refundable, non-returnable, and unjailable kind. (My character seemed to be quite happy snogging his face, but that’s because some programmer wrote a code for it, not because she found his lips yummy. But hey, maybe they were. Go figure.)

Apparently, relationships kind of start this way. There aren’t any going down on one knee or coming up to you with bouquet of roses or holding a teddy bear that says “will you go out with me” or even the traditional “check the box” kind. I always wondered when people actually start dating, and how they remember anniversaries, e.t.c. I recall one of my friends happily telling me it was their three months anniversary, and me having no idea what that meant. I was sixteen, and my head was filled with Hobbits. (They still are, but that’s besides the point.) Anyway, there might be people who would have those moments, but alas I will not be one of them. Here’s what happened.

Recently I became very friendly with a male species who lived in Brussels. Well, it wasn’t a recent occurrence; we’ve been talking since January. When you make a room full of teenagers and early twenty-something year olds who are all pathetically single and pretty much live in two-dimensional worlds, a few of them are bound to decide that living in 2D is enough and that they might want to venture out into the real world where people aren’t programmed to say certain things. When two such people are male and female, pretty much agree on what they believe are important, and are on par with appearances, things progress before two hapless inexperienced barely-out-of-childhood people whose social ineptitude should be given prizes can realise. And before they themselves realise, the surrounding people decide the fate for them: “you guys are dating”.

Actually, scratch that. That happened in the game as well.

Anyway, that’s what seems to be happening to me, as of recently. We were talking, some intimate moments were shared, we both talked to our family (there’s this boy/girl, we really get on well together), and before we knew it they automatically thought “this is getting somewhere”. Maybe we were, I don’t know, because we’re pretty much walking in the darkness and when you’re walking in the dark, you might be walking in circles. Or backwards. Or maybe you’re moonwalking and actually not getting anywhere.

Alistair tricked Amarina into admitting that she had feelings for him, after he admitted that he had feelings for her. Fine. He then kissed her. That’s called theft, but unfortunately Ferelden (or the Landsmeet) didn’t feel like putting up emergency services for the conveniences of the citizens and therefore the elven mage had no one to report to. And then before the two of them knew (I’m pretty sure Amarina thought “we kissed” and that was where the extent of her thoughts ended), the people around them were decidedly thinking that they were now an item. It was a bit like brainwashing. Keep getting told that you are with someone and one day you realise that that is your mindset. Especially when you’re inexperienced.

I thought that was just an in-game plot. I am NOT Amarina, Alistair is a figment of imagination, I don’t live in Ferelden and Mr Ezra Pound (He’s not actually Ezra Pound, but he shall be referred as such as part of a joke) isn’t Alistair. But apparently these things do happen. It was a bit like Final Destination, where you just miss the signs hitting. Over. Your. Head. With. A. Sledgehammer and before you know it, things line up and the car crashes and you’re screaming your head off.

Signs? What signs? Well, I missed them, but now that I think about it, they might have been neon flashing signs. First, I had a completely wrong impression of him. I thought he was a girl. Granted, there was nothing to give away his gender, but still. So when he casually said “I am not a girl”, I apologised profusely and cursed him inside my head so that my embarrassment could give way to irrational and self-righteous anger.

Second, what seems to be inappropriate conversations in private with euphemisms and innuendos. Maybe I read far too many novels but they just spill out when I don’t watch myself. He caught on (curiously enough, because he claims that he’s a complete innocent in these dealings… hmm.), and he was already interested by then, but I had no idea, because evidently I need to get whacked in the face with a big billboard sign that says “I HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU” in order to notice it. I think at this point, it was the point of no return. That being said, I probably wouldn’t have said these things if I was horrified and repulsed. Two points for Gryffindor (by the way, Gryffindor is in my spell check. Mindset was not. Something is wrong here).

Third, our surroundings just simply decided that we were an item. In this case, it wasn’t the evil witch in the back or the faithful bard who loves shoes a bit too much. It was his mother (or maybe it was him, and this was entirely his chicanery, and I fell into a trap and broke a leg and now can’t get out of the well… okay, I’m victimising myself. I’ll stop). Since his family knew about me at this point, his mother asked him how to explain me to other relatives (or something. Why this was necessary eludes me). Since “this girl I’m very interested in but she lives south of the border and we only talk online in a game chatroom but we talk every single day and sometimes she’s naughty to me and I don’t mind it at all” was a bit of a mouthful, he said:

“Girlfriend.”

So that was how I was introduced to his other relatives. At this point, correction at a later date is a bit futile. I also didn’t care, and my skin wasn’t crawling with the idea, and my mind wasn’t telling me to immediately log off and curl under the covers and await the angels’ trumpets and the second coming of the apocalypse, so I told him so.

He asked if it was okay. What was I supposed to say? “Yes darling, in fact, I do”? That’d be lying and hurting people for no particularly good reason. “OMG I’M OVERJOYED XD” was not what I was feeling, probably because I’m not fourteen. So I said yes. And that was that.

Bryony Jones once told me that someone will just suddenly pop up when you aren’t looking. I wasn’t looking. I had reverted back to me at age 15, when my head was filled with non-existent characters and writing and… stuff that really don’t pertain to real life. I guess he was just there and we happened to be compatible.

Anyway, that is the story. The thing that worries me is that he’s younger than me – I’m the kind of a person who wants to rely on the males and not be their elder sisters/mothers. I’m just not that maternal. I want the boys to take care of me, not vice versa. But he seems to be doing a good job of listening to me being a brat and making demands, so maybe it’ll be okay. Who knows. We’ll see.

Oh. And he’s super-tall. And thin. And is pleasing to the eye. That always makes or breaks the deal in the end (I have plenty of boys in my contact list who can probably match me in personality, but appearances decide, in the end. Friendship only goes so far). And whether he’s just saying this to be his ideal of a gentlemen or trying to get into my trousers (probably not) or just to please me is unclear, but he seems happy when I’m happy, so that’s good too. That’s usually an indication that he won’t knowingly make a girl cry (yes, I might cry if he forgot the Neuhaus chocolates, but that’s not really his fault). And the last thing I’ll do is cry over a boy. That’s just a waste of good tears.

On a side note, I have no idea when the “girlfriend” with the mother occurred or when “I told my mother you’re my girlfriend” conversation occurred. So unless we come up with a mutual date, we won’t have one. 

I got my new Evah gold. It costs an arm and a fortune. I think I’ll need to take out a mortgage.

I haven’t strung it yet, but I’ve heard rumours that it sounds “amazing”. Wonder how. I do need a brighter G. My E’s gold, and D and A are bright enough, but G has a tendency to sink.

Last Rose of the Summer is killing me. It took me an entire day to write out the chords on Sibelius so I can just practise the chords first. Then the ricochet.

Summer’s already 1/3 gone. Wow.

First off: oops.

I completely forgot about the blog’s existence, which is a bit of a shame, because I’ve kept one since Junior High. I think that must be some kind of a record. But things got utterly hectic and I couldn’t do it.

Anyway, I’m back.

And the layout is different, because my web server disappeared while I was on hiatus and I can’t find my files. So here we are…

Today was god-awful.

Dragon Age II began. And since my Warden fell in love with her fellow Warden, I decided that Hawke will not fall in love with Anders – who’s far too like Alistair anyway – and will go for the elf instead.

My god, he’s a PAIN IN THE ASS.

First of all, he’s moody. Really moody. And very combative. It didn’t start off well either. The conversation went like this:

Fenris: We should be cautious. No need to throw away life so needlessly.
Hawke: Alright.
Fenris: (storms into the manor) DANARIUS! I’M RIGHT HERE AND I’M GONNA HAVE YOUR HEAD!
Hawke: (facepalm)

And then, as it turns out, if Hawke has a relationship with Anders, no Fenris loving time for you! What the hell did he want, a virgin?

Now, my Warden was a virgin (there’s a dialogue option that allows the player to tell this). But I have no idea about Hawke. However, romance with Anders happened rather precipitously, with Anders going “STOP STRINGING ME ALONG” and Hawke going “Well, let’s see, let’s drive this guy, who’s already nuts, more nuts, shall we?”. And then boom. Kissy time. Hawke then went home, and shagging occurred. What the hell. What kind of a relationship goes from first kiss to first shag in one night? Amazing.

Back to Fenris. He’s not exactly the most wooing guy in the world. After first Fenris sexy time, he dumps you. Douchebag. When Hawke’s mother dies, he can’t be a bigger prick if he tried.

So why is my Hawke trying to romance him? Well, truth be told, no romance option in Dragon Age II is decent. In Dragon Age: Origins, both romance options for a heterosexual female Warden were decent; shy and sensitive and proper or rambunctious and outrageous. But this time, it’s either:

A: Anders, who loves you, cherishes you, then blows up a chantry and starts a war,
B: Fenris, who is more than slightly emo (sorry Fenris) and generally seems to have a penis on his head, or
C: Sebastian, who’ll marry you, but never give you sexy time. Which baffles me. Marriage without physical intimacy seems kind of cruel.

So Bioware, for the next Dragon Age, please make a decent romance option that won’t necessarily break the hero’s heart.

Okay, back to seducing the emo elf.

I've had the misfortune (or fortune) to be introduced to PC RPG games when I was in year 8. All credits go to Kori Miller, wherever you are, and my English teacher, who taught me many other ways to waste time in general. Anyway, as some of us know, I finally got Dragon Age Origins, and my goodness that thing's hilarious.

Like...

Creeeeeepy.

Or this:


This just ruins the tension and the mood.

I think I'm getting bored of the game, as I've deviated from saving the continent from the imminent doom and I'm just making my party dance to Thriller.

What of Skyrim? You may ask. Ah, dear friends, that game is annoying me. It's fetch for most of the time, and I can't stop running into walls most of the time. The mouse control of direction and going forward with AWSD is annoying. Why couldn't they do what NWN/NWN2/DAO/DAII did?! Baffling. So unless they come out with a mod, that game's on hold until I can get used to spinning views.